Who knew that most of my drama would be from Friend M (for my new followers, Friend M is My Mom)
Yesterday my mom decides to call me. She has sold her house and everything needs to be out of it by the 22nd of this month. She wants to see DD tomorrow, which now is today. She still asks to keep DD all by herself. She wanted to come get her and take her to 2 counties over, which is about 45 minutes, one way. I talked to Hubs and he suggested that he take the car to work, since his truck is in the shop, and M could just come here and get DD and I at home. Sounds fair to me. I then call her and let her know, you can tell I made her mad in the sound of her voice, because now she isn’t just getting DD, she is getting me too!
Anyway, last night we got the oil changed in the car, and got some stuff for home. When we got home I unloaded the car, and got in the house, it was freeeeezing outside! I didn’t even think about DD’s car seat till this morning, and guess what? Hubs took the car seat with him to work, in the car. What Tha Hell!? How can I forget that!? But I did.
Last night around midnight I was talking to Friend JS. I haven’t seen him since my birthday lunch, which was about a month ago, so I invited him to come eat lunch with us, and I would pay, since he said he didn’t have any money. I know, I am such a good friend. He agreed he would, and we picked a place in town to eat. We picked a restaurant that I haven’t had in about 4 years or so. We made our plans, so when M showed we could get going, because I only have a few hours till I have to be home and get ready to go meet someone else with the Hubs.
M asked me last night what time DD and I got up in the mornings and I told her between 8-9:30. Well, DD woke me up at 9 asking where M was. I got out of the bed and called her. Come to find out she isn’t planning on being here till 12, and she knows I have to be home at 3pm, because I have previous plans. I told her that I needed to eat lunch around 11, but of course she doesn’t listen to that either. She then says, “I’ll just take DD to the beach, it is a park, and you can go with friend JS”. I then asked, If you do that, when and how is DD going to eat lunch? and it is going to be 40 degrees outside!
Like, why doesn’t she understand she is NEVER getting DD ALONE again!?
Hubs just texted me and told me that M isn’t coming.
When I talked to her on the phone, she was on her way. We forgot the car seat, and the car seat is in the parking lot at Hubs work, in the locked car. So she would have to go by Hubs job site to get the keys, which is on the way, then stop and get the car seat and come here, which is on the way, too. She told me on the phone, with her attitude, that she wouldn’t be here for another hr and half because she has to do this chase for the car seat, but yet it is on her way. I dunno how that adds an hr and half, when it takes her 45 minutes to get here.
When I was on the phone with her she was yelling and throwing her attitude, and I simply told her not to bring her attitude here. I don’t need it, and it is not my fault, it is an accident, people forget things.
But M does this crap all the time. Even Hubs said she called him and said she was just going back home bc she had a headache and named off other excuses, however, I told him what she done to me on the phone and he said that he is tired of it. M never sticks to plans,and I can never depend on her and now its involving DD. She even told Hubs that “I had other plans” because I invited JS to go eat lunch with us, and she wanted to take DD to the park, and apparently I didnt want that, so she will give up and go home.
and I really do!
There you go, my drama started at 9am, how about yours?